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    Default Do Gay Dudes Hit on You?

    Feel free to answer also if you're a woman, that would be pretty impressive. I was going to start a thread on this earlier, but I had only been hit on several times by older men, some with very bad breath. But, it's definitely a trend.

    I was at the Taco Bell, finishing up and throwing away the wrapper for my Fresco Burrito Supreme when I looked down by my belt buckle and saw a hand snake past straight into and through my comfort zone to throw something away. I looked over and a young, and pretty buff ?STP kid in a tank top, gauged ears and shiny spiked hair was all in my space.

    I sat back down and formulated an idea of what happened.. I was being zoned in on. I scouted it out, he musta been an employee just off of work and gave an older employee lady a hug. and as he went out the door, I braced myself to test my hypothesis. He confirmed it by trying to give me a smoldering look as he went out the doors. Then he stood by his mustang for a while, looking like some leading dude from a teen movie.

    I let him get bored and drive away.. because, well, I'm not gay. But, I guess being ENFP and dressing well sends out signals, and maybe watching teen movies.
    This doesn't bother me at all.. actually, I find it amusing. I just wish women were that aggressive.

    Okay, fess up.. when has a man singled you out?

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    I've been hit on by guys more than girls. I even had a male stalker.
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    Yeah, they're usually cool it you respond politely, but cooly making it clear you respect them as a person, but you're not interested.
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    I thought I was being hit on by a very pretty guy in musical theatre once.
    But he had a boyfriend.

    I also had a gay guy force a lapdance on me at a cast party, dancing to Michael Jackson's ''Beat It,'' while I covered my face with my hands.

    Mh, I can't complain.
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    It happens from time to time. Most recent one I can remember a waiter got extremely flirty with me. I was sitting with a group of about 20 people at a restaurant and he was singling me out a lot and bringing me free stuff and things that he wasn't doing for anyone else. I was oblivious to it for a while and when I think back I probably let him on a little bit just by being too accepting and friendly before I realized what was going on. Once I realized it I felt really uncomfortable because I wasn't sure what all I had said to him and the situation was just awkward. I got a pretty good ribbing about it from my coworkers for quite a while after that.

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    Yep. Hooked up with a couple in fact.
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    Yes, and I'm female.

    So help me god a gay guy kissed me (tongue and all) one night at a party before I could stop him. He said "I always wanted to see what it was like to kiss a woman!"

    He was a friend of mine, which is why I was even that physically close to him, and he had a partner, so I was more than a little surprised.

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    Well, the opposite - my boyfriend and I thought the waitress was hitting on me the other night. Even though we changed our place setting to sit side-by-side. And generally lean on each other. She was really sweet, ExFJ vibe, very attentive, shiny dark brown hair and sparkly dark eyeshadow. Kept giving me these looks.



    As for gay guys, I did have a friend in high school who liked to sit in my lap. High school was just generally awkward.

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    That reminds me, this very aggressive large girl kept hanging on me at a party, everytime I was on the patio talking to my guy friends. She was kinda known for making out with girls at parties [you know- getting male attn tactic]. She'd come over to me, arm around my hip/waist, kissing my cheek- but only when I was talking to that little group of males. If a guy had done that, he would've been punched. For some reason I felt bad hitting a girl so I just sort of stood there til she was finished attempting to fondle me & I could escape.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexicon View Post
    If a guy had done that, he would've been punched. For some reason I felt bad hitting a girl so I just sort of stood there til she was finished attempting to fondle me & I could escape.
    Sexist.
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