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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
    Yeah. I think that's all extremely weird and awkward.
    It sure is.

    Face-to-Face FTW!

    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I think some people are addicted to being on the losing end of the relationship.
    Really???? Is that like being scared of winning?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    It sure is.

    Face-to-Face FTW!



    Really???? Is that like being scared of winning?
    Probably. I see the pattern in a few people where it is always the same story.. They have more invested in the relationship than the other person. And so they are used to being in the position of inferior and spend all of their time doing things to make sure that they other person realizes How Much They Care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emerald Rain View Post
    Even though I know I can never have her?

    I've never met her in person.
    She posts online in another forum.
    She's bubbly, an ENFJ...yes, she took the test.

    We've exchanged couple of messages, I have her on Skype, but I'm afraid to talk to her as I don't know what might happen. She knows my intention. she also knows other guys in that forum are also equally fascinated with her. So far I've been trying hard to eliminate the thoughts of her as I know I will never meet her.

    I try to think of this logically, but it still doesn't help. I still find myself wanting her. What can I do to eliminate the thoughts of her?
    I'm not trying to insult you with my posts. I want to help you see the reality of the situation, so you don't PM her something you might regret (at this point).

    People can pretend to be whatever they want to be online. Gaurd your heart. Be safe. Approach it like you would approach a stranger on the street because that's what she is until you get to know her in-person.

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    It's okay as long as you create such pieces:



    :P

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    This is kinda crazy as an English speaker. http://www.forvo.com/word/vincent_van_gogh/#nl

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    I'm not trying to insult you with my posts. I want to help you see the reality of the situation, so you don't PM her something you might regret (at this point).

    People can pretend to be whatever they want to be online. Gaurd your heart. Be safe. Approach it like you would approach a stranger on the street because that's what she is until you meet/talk/Get to know her in person.
    I don't think I'll pm her about my feelings. She knows I like her, if she likes me back, there'll be a way. eventually. I will not avoid her on Skype.

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    It's okay as long as you create such pieces:




    :P
    Judging by your avi I'll have to hide my severed ear from your nibbling zombie mouth.






    Starry night you can keep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emerald Rain View Post
    Judging by your avi I'll have to hide my severed ear from your nibbling zombie mouth.






    Starry night you can keep.
    No no no! I'm not a zombie! Well, not yet anyway. I'm still keeping the hoards at bay. Also zombs don't eat ears. They just need brainz and Ikea furniture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I have a great book where one of the chapters is called: "A relationship is under the control of the person who cares the least."
    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    My sister used to tell me that and it's true.
    This doesn't have to be true. For example, there is the perception of who cares the least, which may not in fact be the person who cares the least.

    In either case, the sappy letter is a bad idea. It's better to I think to take incremental steps towards progress.

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    Quote Originally Posted by highlander View Post
    This doesn't have to be true. For example, there is the perception of who cares the least, which may not in fact be the person who cares the least.
    That's true especially when things are cloudy or six one way, half a dozen the other, but in some cases it's really clear that the other person doesn't care.

    Oh and I'm remember now that my sister said "The person who loves the least controls the relationship". She didn't use the word "care", she used "love".

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    Quote Originally Posted by thealchemist View Post
    No no no! I'm not a zombie! Well, not yet anyway. I'm still keeping the hoards at bay. Also zombs don't eat ears. They just need brainz and Ikea furniture.
    Why the IKEA furniture?

    Quote Originally Posted by highlander View Post
    This doesn't have to be true. For example, there is the perception of who cares the least, which may not in fact be the person who cares the least.

    In either case, the sappy letter is a bad idea. It's better to I think to take incremental steps towards progress.
    What sort of incremental steps?









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