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    Quote Originally Posted by Elaur View Post
    I don't think distance ruins a possible relationship. I think wanting the relationship more than the actual person ruins it.
    Meh. I think it ruins it bigtime. You can't have downtime when you're long distance. You can't just hang out and watch TV together. It's totally weird, and I think that downtime is critical to developing a good relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elaur View Post
    I don't think distance ruins a possible relationship. I think wanting the relationship more than the actual person ruins it.
    I have a great book where one of the chapters is called: "A relationship is under the control of the person who cares the least."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I have a great book where one of the chapters is called: "A relationship is under the control of the person who cares the least."
    How can you care if you've never heard their voice? The person might be in a nursing home pretending to be something they're not.

    EDIT: BTW, when I say "you", I don't mean specifically you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I can think of a few people who fit that bill!
    Which part?

    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I have a great book where one of the chapters is called: "A relationship is under the control of the person who cares the least."
    My sister used to tell me that and it's true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
    Meh. I think it ruins it bigtime. You can't have downtime when you're long distance. You can't just hang out and watch TV together. It's totally weird, and I think that downtime is critical to developing a good relationship.
    Skyping and camming for 6 hours gives you an awful lot of downtime. You can also watch movies while camming on skype. I've sewn clothes while on skype....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elaur View Post
    Skyping for 6 hours gives you an awful lot of downtime. You can also watch movies while camming on skype. I've sewn clothes while on skype....
    Yeah. I think that's all extremely weird and awkward.

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    *crickets*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    How can you care if you've never heard their voice? The person might be in a nursing home pretending to be something they're not.
    ? wrong quote?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
    Yeah. I think that's all extremely weird and awkward.
    I am extremely weird and awkward. I can't argue that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    Which part?



    My sister used to tell me that and it's true.
    it is extremely true.

    I think some people are addicted to being on the losing end of the relationship.

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