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    Quote Originally Posted by Emerald Rain View Post
    You are the voice of reason.
    I smell defeat.

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    Is this the future?
    I don't like it.

    Whatever happened to seeing a girl, thinking she's gorgeous, realizing she's also perfect, and going from there?

    Now you realize gorgeous girls aren't perfect, and perfect girls are not accessible.

    And we wollow in angst with the hope that that isn't true.

    Where is she? I want her here next to me. Every second is like a wasted second with her not here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xisnotx View Post
    Is this the future?
    I don't like it.

    Whatever happened to seeing a girl, thinking she's gorgeous, realizing she's also perfect, and going from there?

    Now you realize gorgeous girls aren't perfect, and perfect girls are not accessible.
    What in the heck?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elaur View Post
    Most people won't admit they are enjoying the pain. They want to live the pain, not admit to enjoying it.
    hmm... the pain is what's familiar. I don't enjoy it , but I'm addicted, if that's even possible.

    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    I smell defeat.
    What would you have me do?

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    He said he would never meet her. She lives in a different country.

    Now stop encouraging this guy towards something he can't have or else he's gonna cut his own ear off at any moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emerald Rain View Post
    Even though I know I can never have her?


    I've never met her in person.
    She posts online in another forum.
    She's bubbly, an ENFJ...yes, she took the test.

    We've exchanged couple of messages, I have her on Skype, but I'm afraid to talk to her as I don't know what might happen. She knows my intention. she also knows other guys in that forum are also equally fascinated with her. So far I've been trying hard to eliminate the thoughts of her as I know I will never meet her.

    I try to think of this logically, but it still doesn't help. I still find myself wanting her. What can I do to eliminate the thoughts of her?
    It takes months of dating before you get to see someone for who they are. For the first few months your perception is mixed up with who you want the person to be. In essence, you're fantasizing and getting know a figment of your imagination, but it feels real. It's a mild hallucination.

    Most people who are hallucinating don't realize they're hallucinating and you can try and tell them, but it won't make a shit of a difference. The only thing you can do is wait it out or meet someone else.

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    I don't think distance ruins a possible relationship. I think wanting the relationship more than the actual person ruins it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    What in the heck?
    What's confusing?
    I just wish falling in love was easier.

    So many people on the planet. The ones you feel closest to are nothing but words on a screen. Perhaps a bit sad...but like I said, if this is the future I do not like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emerald Rain View Post
    hmm... the pain is what's familiar. I don't enjoy it , but I'm addicted, if that's even possible.
    Awkward. The emotions are starting to overpower your intelligence. You might not like each other after you Skype. Get er done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    I almost wrote CandyLand but I didn't want to offend any bear chasers (aka Canadians).



    That's too bad. It's quite gratifying in an uber emo way.




    Yeah see, it would be unfair to her as well if you lead her on initially and then backed out later.
    I can think of a few people who fit that bill!

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