She has often made a point of how, being an INFP, she leaves routine chores such as dishes undone, but still deserves to be loved, valued, and everything despite that. I'd say it depends on whether the sink is full of Lean Cuisine trays, or evidence of decent culinary skills.
"Love never needs time. But friendship always needs time. More and more and more time, up to long past midnight." -- The Crime of Captain Gahagan