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    Oh, so you're referencing a specific situation rather than

    thinking of you

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    If I weren't so intuitive with people's sensitivies, I wouldn't have to add "just kidding". Preferably I wouldn't because that's what makes me a funny person.
    I remember my boss walked into the room one day and I said "Why does Barbara dress like an elf?". (Joking, but not really lol).

    It's kind of a slap in the face in my opinion... I'd rather people not tell me they're joking. Just insult me. People take themselves so seriously it drives me insane.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    What do you think when someone says something that can be taken as being rude/off putting, and then pops out the phrase "I was just kidding" right behind the potentially offensive remark?
    It's the biggest passive-aggressive cop out there is. No one is EVER kidding when they say this, and it's so refreshing to hear someone actually owning their offensiveness.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    It's the biggest passive-aggressive cop out there is. No one is EVER kidding when they say this, and it's so refreshing to hear someone actually owning their offensiveness.
    wow, so you know exactly what everyone means in the whole world, are you psychic? because sometimes yes I am kidding.
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    wow, so you know exactly what everyone means in the whole world, are you psychic? because sometimes yes I am kidding.
    If you knowingly say something offensive, then follow with "I was just kidding" that means you knew it was offensive and said it anyway. So no, you're not kidding but you are laying the responsibility for the offensive comment on the other person, not on yourself.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    If you knowingly say something offensive, then follow with "I was just kidding" that means you knew it was offensive and said it anyway. So no, you're not kidding.
    you have no idea.
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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