When push comes to shove, I choose my inner life. This does not make me likeable.
I do though adore anyone who chooses their inner life too, and so in the nature of things, they tend to adore me too.
Libeable is nice. I make people laugh. People confide in me. But few like me. A few though love me. But I am waiting, I am waiting for my soul mate to adore me as I adore them.