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    So this boy at school came up to me and told me he liked me...I walked away without saying other than "I don't care". I kinda feel bad and I am not sure what to do...what do I do? Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do?
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    Go tell him that you are sorry for being so rude. If you dont like him that way, then tell him that too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Razzaberry View Post
    So this boy at school came up to me and told me he liked me...I walked away without saying other than "I don't care". I kinda feel bad and I am not sure what to do...what do I do? Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do?
    Seriously, if you continue treating people this way your life is gonna be very miserable. I'd suggest apologizing, but it has to be genuine.
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    Well, you obviously kinda care if you're willing to make a thread about it...and are asking for advice.
    Start with that.

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    Yeah...you both have very good ideas....I guess I should use them...but thats bad....I don't really apologize that easily....eh...I'm horrible
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    Quote Originally Posted by INTP View Post
    Go tell him that you are sorry for being so rude. If you dont like him that way, then tell him that too.
    Brilliant advice.

    Dude, you just need to stop saying "I'm terrible" and living up to the reputation you are giving yourself. It doesn't make you cool. It doesn't make people respect you.

    Also, what's the point in telling all of us on here that you're "terrible" but that you "kinda feel bad about it" so that you parade your rudeness around and make it seem like you're asking for advice? Are you looking for us to throw a party for you being an asshole? To pat you on the back?

    You're young, but geez, grow a pair of balls and just try to be nice to people. And don't give us some "but IxTPs are inherently rude" bullshit. Some of the sweetest people I know are IxTPs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by allegorystory View Post
    Dude, you just need to stop saying "I'm terrible" and living up to the reputation you are giving yourself. It doesn't make you cool. It doesn't make people respect you.

    Also, what's the point in telling all of us on here that you're "terrible" but that you "kinda feel bad about it" so that you parade your rudeness around and make it seem like you're asking for advice? Are you looking for us to throw a party for you being an asshole? To pat you on the back?

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    1. Apologize to the boy.

    2. Talk with him, gain some level of peace between you and him so that there's no misunderstandings.

    3. I wouldn't hold such actions against you, given that you're only 15 and still have a lot of growing up to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by INTP View Post
    Go tell him that you are sorry for being so rude. If you dont like him that way, then tell him that too.
    I must agree. People make mistakes, and this seems like the best way to approach him again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by allegorystory View Post
    Brilliant advice.

    Dude, you just need to stop saying "I'm terrible" and living up to the reputation you are giving yourself. It doesn't make you cool. It doesn't make people respect you.

    Also, what's the point in telling all of us on here that you're "terrible" but that you "kinda feel bad about it" so that you parade your rudeness around and make it seem like you're asking for advice? Are you looking for us to throw a party for you being an asshole? To pat you on the back?

    You're young, but geez, grow a pair of balls and just try to be nice to people. And don't give us some "but IxTPs are inherently rude" bullshit. Some of the sweetest people I know are IxTPs.
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