I saw what happened, TG. JC only remarked on the fact that you refused to mention who you were talking about, yet continued to describe the character while refusing to answer people's questions as to who it was, continuing a conversation where the "holder of power" was you. People got pissed off, and @93JC called you an attention whore, and you flipped out.
I then asked you who the actor was, and you got into an argument again.
I don't really see how you can demand respect from someone when you have not earned it from them.
But overall, the most confusing thing about the entire issue, was why you were reacting the way you did. It was an over reaction, and this thread is proof.
If people treat you the way you say you do, have you ever asked yourself why?