If i'm having a low self esteem day and i think my butt looks big, then asks someone else and they reply yes, my ass is still going to be big (unless i exercise which still will have no immediate results). If they reply no, then it's just my own insecurity.
I think my way of replying is looking at the whole instead of focusing on one aspect. But then maybe that's i can get resentful because i try not to focus on one point even though it may be eating at me .. Thanks for that, thought provoking.