well I usually have a list in my head of things that I would like him to do, does that count?
Come on if the washer doesn't have hot water I need his help with that, if the faucet on the tub is loose, then yes I expect him to do that
do I have a time frame, yes in my head, do I bitch or complain about it, um not generally
yes I am VERY stereo typical for gender roles, but no I don't expect him to cook or shop, and most days the best thing he can do for me
is spend time with our children