Right now i feel my only weak point is being introvert. It may sound arrogant when i say "only", of course nobody is perfect but i mean the factor of myself that im not satisfied with.
Im not the kind of person that goes everywhere with a smile, i just have a neutral face, i dont smile easily but i dont look you like "IM GONNA KILL YOU". I think some people will believe that i hate people but i actually love them, i dont trust them easily but i dream of a world where everybody is happy, seriously. So i guess the tip here would be "smile more " but i dont feel like fake smiling around. However, i still remember how to smile! hehe
Then, meeting new people... i cannot put effort into making friends with people i know im not going to see in the future but at the same time, again, i dont want to act like i pretend that im interested in somebody if im actually not.
Group chats, again im bad specially when theres more unknown people than friends.
I really need advice and tips on how to be more... approachable and better speaker, i know i have to change my mind but i need to listen/read the right words that convince me about it, because i cant find them myself, so i trust you BUNCH OF STRANGERS (wink wink) to make me think different.
Or if any introverted succeeded in becoming more extrovert, i would love to know about their experiences!
Ive read many stuff on the net and some videos but they all say the same "ask them about what they like! dont be shy!".. not convincing!
Thanks for reading