I've been told it's a bad idea to name your children after positive qualities because you deny them any chance of ever possessing that quality. I have a quality-named child and it seems to be true for her in one sense of the word she's named, and not true for her in another sense of the word.
My sister's middle name is joy. She is quite a joyful person too.
I'm not one of those guys that has become strangely feminist, and hates men in concept. It's just that I really do feel a lot more comfortable around females. Maybe it's because I had three brothers and no sisters, and not such a warm relationship with them. But who knows, that's just spontaneous psycho-analysis.
The point is, I realize that it might be really awkward if my kids were male.
Go to sleep, iguana.
INTP. Type 1>6>5. sx/sp. Live and let live will just amount to might makes right