I don't think it effected me too much because I don't think I ever took the idea of men not having emotions or being emotional seriously. I didn't relate emotions to gender. I realized that girls always went "awwww" about everything, but I didn't think it had anything to do with emotion, I just thought thats how they talked. I thought it was kind of phony, really, because I was feeling stuff too but I didn't say "aww" (difference between Fi and Fe I guess, but I think a lot of the Fe you see in little girls is fake).
I don't think of myself as a male feeler. I am GZA, a person, a man, a personality, and a personality that includes a lot of emotion. I don't think my emotional nature has ever seriously challenged my sense of masculinity.
I still got picked on though, whether from bullies (but that rarely happened) or my friends teasing me because as a senstive guy, I react, and this made me notice something was going on. I don't really experience this any more.
I have what MBTI calls "introverted feeling" -its inside me. The world really doesn't even see it... so it doesn't make much of a difference anyway. People mostly see Ne, which makes me look insane or on drugs to a lot of people