This thread is interesting, I was just going through all my old things and found a stash of daily planners from when I was married. I was looking through my schedules and wow, was it ever SJ.
This lasted three years before I imploded.
I think I was very SJ coming from a traditional family, and getting married. Being the youngest of four and trying to be taken seriously (specially when my history was the history of negative things sensors would have to say about intuitives). I tried to put my best most respectable "grown up" face forward. I also loved having my own family to run. I think I went a little overboard on the "perfect wife/mom" thing. Also keeping a close reign on my ESTP ex who was constantly causing consequences for me to deal with.
Three years into it, I started to become suffocated thinking I had cornered myself into the rest of my life with no room to advance given the people I had surrounded myself with and the reputation I had built up.
Shorty after divorcing, I took my first MBTI which typed me ESTJ.
Does anyone else have friends that do the whole gossip thing, but who also, unanimously and in MY presence, reaffirm 2-3 times/wk that they hate drama? This always confused the hell out of me, but after 15 years or so, I finally gave in and started participating in these haughty circle jerks, but I feel like I'm still so bad at it. Worse, I feel a twinge of hypocrisy that has fortunately, over time, faded away to some degree.
Another thing I am still struggling with is watching the football game. I try to emulate the excitement and emotions, but I feel like my timing is always off, or I'll get into it and then accidentally admire a "good play" from the wrong team (I can scarcely remember which one we're supposed to follow on any given day). And then at this point, my cover is totally blown.
I try to care about fashion and style because I work retail and think it's in my benefit (to keep my job) to know things, and although I know a lot about it I really really can't pull it off. I look so horrible when I try to look good. I can't care about these things.