Some of the things you've mentioned are actually things I love. If some big, strong man wants to help me lug around a box or luggage, feel free and thank-you very much. Ever tried to pull luggage off a baggage carousel and almost fall in due to the weight? BTDT and appreciated the assistance given by the sweetheart of a man next to me. But then, I've also helped children and elderly people in need in the areas that I could and didn't look down on them. It's simple fact that there are some weaker than others and that's okay too.
Being attractive isn't a curse. It's an advantage. It's also an advantage to stay in shape since it not only enhances your attractiveness, it's excellent for draining off stress and all around feeling healthy.
As far as being dumped when you age, it depends on the partner. Choose wisely and if at all possible, both must maintain intimacy within the relationship. The less connection between partners, the more likely one will wander off.
Hmmm...objects and fantasies, service of needs and naivety. I don't know what your experiences have been with men but when it comes to your concerns, avoid the misogynists.
Women have power within them. We're not victims. But with power come responsibilities. Can't have one without the other. You can refuse to accept the responsibilities but the net effect is that you've given away your personal power. Take a look at some of the more misogynistic posts on TypeC. Lame or what? Complete turnoff or what? In whining about their responsibilities, they've lost their masculine appeal/power. Self-prophesizing.