I love being a girl. I love dressing up, I love make-up, I love curling irons, I love heels, I love frills, I love babies, I love being able to get away with cuddling small white furry dogs in public. Honestly, I think it's much easier being an ENFP female than it is to be an ENFP male. What I don't like is the lower expectations people have of you if you are a female, especially one who looks/dresses traditionally feminine. The flip though, I appreciate that I'm not pressured or expected to always be stoic and tough. Men really will "help you out" and go easier on you in a way that they will not extend themselves for other guys, because guys are supposed to be self-sufficient. I have to say, if I'm trying to load heavy furniture into my car I may appreciate this, but otherwise it's basically patronizing and I realize I am not being "allowed" to excel. I do like all the girly aspect of being a girl though I am actually a lot more aggressive and shorter-tempered than I act. Also, it helps a lot that I love women and keeping the company of women. I have never understood women who don't like women and prefer the company of men.