Speaking pragmatically, I don't think that anyone can do anything they set their mind to. I think that's... naive and unfair. To assume that original assumption is to say that all people that have failed have done so because they weren't good enough or didn't work hard enough. It also places the unfair label of superwoman to all women. I don't wanna be no superwoman! I want to be free to make mistakes and refuse to take on the world on my back. I'm just a human like everyone else.
A lot of women cannot do everything and anything. There are things out of our control. To not identify it is to blame the victims. Victims isn't the right word here... but you know what I mean.