Probably the most irritating thing I come across is people that bitch just to bitch. And I'm not saying that I am always an overflowing cup of optimism, I definately am not. Infact, I am quite critical.. more so than I wish to be. But I think that if your going to lay out a problem, carry on and on about how much a problem it is, but then FAIL to offer up some kind of solution or tear down others solutions, then your a turd. Same goes for ideas and plans. If you think an idea is off, don't just explain why the idea isn't going to work, but give some ALTERNATIVE and explain why its better. Even if the idea is 'we do nothing' which will probably not fit with the problem in the first place. I wonder if anyone else gets terribley annoyed with this? Is it more common in Ne dom? Now I know someone is going to come along and say "people need to vent sometimes, they are not looking for answers, only to be heard." And thats fine, if your venting to someone that doesn't mind just listening to negative ramblings. But I don't think that many people really enjoy doing this. I think this is more suited for a shrink, that you pay to listen to your bitching. Then again, if its a good shrink they will probably want to find a solution also, or atleast treat your bitching symptom with a high dose of prozak.
Does any one else get INCREDIBLY irritated with the debbie downers and idea critics? What does the fact that this bothers me so much mean?
My solution to this problem? People STOP bitching just to bitch.