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    Honor Thy Inferior Such Irony's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Red Herring View Post
    Hey, I even remember ParadigmShift!

    Well I guess the Paradigm must have really shifted!

    Sorry, bad joke.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aquarelle99 View Post
    Awww, you remember!
    You know, when I was a very little boy coming home from kindergarten, I would look forward to seeing my mother with a burst of love, and passing a field of canna lillies, I picked a bunch just for her, but she didn't seem to recognise the significance of my gift of flowers, and so I never brought her any more flowers.

    So you see Aquarelle, I am a frustrated giver of flowers and you are a frustrated receiver. No wonder I am your insignificant other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lien View Post
    you know, when i don't get an immediate reply, i feel completely unloved. i have to always be told i am loved, in order to believe i am loved. my big cousin hugs me and tells me he loves me everyday. but if he doesn't for some reason, i immediately feel unliked. i think, it's my fault. what did i do this time? i'm unlikeable. they just want me to go away. they hate me!! so i run away a lot from people for this reason.

    rationally, i don't think this is natural, i think my behavior is kind of like a stray puppy. a stray puppy wants attention, but doesn't know how to go about getting it. and i think a long time ago there might have been a time when i didn't feel like this. i think that i have to learn how to feel love with my mind, and understand that i am loved.

    but in nearly all cases, i don't. i can't. i don't think i am loved. for so many reasons. for any reason. every reason. so eternal internal conflict. not only that, but sometimes i feel people get frustrated with me, so i just feel completely deflated.

    i also think i need to work on my personality, to be more likeable. and to help others understand they are liked. cause i really do like people. almost everyone and everywhere i look around i'm always admiring everyone. i think they're so much better than me and know so much. id on't think there's anyone i don't admire or want to be more like, even if they've completely pissed me off. then i think i expect too much of a one-sided interaction on their part. and i hate myself for it.
    You have a wonderful gift as well as the gift of expressing it. And you are sharing your gift with us. I think feeling unloved is as important as feeling loved, and here you are, poised between the two.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuchIrony View Post
    Well I guess the Paradigm must have really shifted!

    Sorry, bad joke.
    No way, that joke was awesome!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Victor View Post

    So you see Aquarelle, I am a frustrated giver of flowers and you are a frustrated receiver. No wonder I am your insignificant other.
    Yes, it does make sense in a poetic, metaphorical kind of way. And thank you for the lovely bouquet of verbal wildflowers.
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    i kinda feel you when it comes to topics like appreciate a forum member or topics like that, not that i care that much about not mentioned on any of them, but still..
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    I have a theory that one's avatar makes a difference as to how one is received/perceived. I tend to feel more connected, for want of a better word, when people have faces in their avvies.

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    People responded really well when I had my sasquatch avatar.
    Act your age not your enneagram number.

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    A sasquatch has a face. :-)

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    It is nice to feel appreciated. For NTers, it's a good feeling when a post you've put some thought into, is appreciated.

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