Sub is amazingly intelligent, articulate, kind and loyal man among many other things. Not only do I admire his ability to disassemble words and situations, I also admire his ability to reconstruct them with clarity and offer ideas in a fresh new light. He's a gifted photographer and one of the kindest people I've come into contact in a long time. The time where he drove all over creation just so his friend could hook up with the woman of his dreams (hopefully anyway) is still fresh in my mind.
He's also extremely patient, especially when I respond without having read a post in it's entirety.
Living a peaceful life in this world isn't easy, but Sub seems to do this with ease.
Btw Sub, L and I are planning a trip to the UK next year and would love to stop over and have a pint with you.
Thank you for your kind words and I would have to agree. Your analysis is pretty spot on. However, if someone pm'ed me saying they hated you (they wouldn't dare) I would listen but then I also have to kick their ass and make them see the error of their ways. I am very loyal (if you're into astrology which I'm not, I'm a Taurus) and the few people that I do take into my circle, I am always there for.Jen is Jen, she is who she is, and that quiet knowledge that that's enough, together with the acknowledgement of her need to be loved and appreciated, and her willingness to be open and vulnerable, are things that make her a special and wonderful person as far as I'm concerned. I've always got time for Jen and I trust both her words and her motives. She's one of the few people I can just feel relaxed about, I don't feel like knowing her is a case of head games and guessing games. I don't need to worry about her taking things I say the wrong way, and I know she'd never stab me in the back. If someone PM'ed her saying they hated me, I'm sure she'd listen to them and stuff but at the same time, I trust her to put across my POV and not to support idly gossip or bitching about me behind my back.
I'm glad I was wrong.edit - just read your edit Jen and see, you were wrong!