Well, you know, I'm able to intuit rejection before it happens. (I am Ni dominant, you see.)
Also, when I feel confident that people would say yes and they don't, it leaves me extremely broken inside.
The same thing happens when I feel confident they'll say no and instead they say yes.
You cannot be sure you are correctly intuiting how others will respond. You have inferior sensing. You got to be your own best advocate in life because no one else is likely to be so. If you want some artsy chick, then put your similar interests out there so she can see them and who knows what may happen? Someone else may also notice you who is just as desirable who had not previously noticed you behind the angry mask.
mm i honestly don't think you should change anything. In the long run the person you end up with is going to see every part of your personality eventually. If a person doesn't like who you are as a whole, then they are really not worth it in my opinion.
Your strong points are your sense of humor and intelligence, definitely don't change that. You also shouldn't have to change your interests. If you have an interest in Nazis Germany, then you should keep it. Don't change who you are, thats not cool.
I'm sure a lot of people would disagree with me, but i really value people staying true to themselves.
So, in the dating world, what are personality characteristics I shouldn't change?
Those that reflect the true you. You have said before that the Nazi approving remarks and gore stuff makes you more interesting as if you were doing it to gain some sort of attention that you felt you were not worthy of otherwise. (Simply not true)
That is the reason why I think it is a mask of sorts. If it is not a mask then ignore what I say, but somehow I am thinking it is. You give interesting glimpses of yourself on here. If you did that with someone who was on your wavelength I am sure she would find you very interesting. No one wants a saint, but surely most don't want to be frightened either.
Those that reflect the true you. You have said before that the Nazi approving remarks and gore stuff makes you more interesting. That is the reason why I think it is a mask of sorts. If it is not a mask then ignore what I say, but somehow I am thinking it is.
If this is true... it really doesn't... I ignore your whole Nazi front (which isn't in your face, and I wonder if it is even something you truly identify with), but if anything the whole Nazi thing seems kind of like a teenage angst thing.