I suspect that the terms "civilized people" and "polite conversation" elicited a snort from you, and that is precisely what I mean by polishing. These things are not dirty words, and you wouldn't be selling out if you did them.
You want another crumpet, Mr. Fluffy-pants? Watch the Care Bears and listen to some Enya?
"Chase after the truth like all hell and you'll free yourself, even if you never touch its coattails."
You look just fine. It is the angry, sadisitic, torture, blood, guts, violence, nazi type stuff that is likely to be causing you the most difficulty with females. jmo.
Yeah - that and the haircut doesn't help with this perception.
I've always been attracted to NT types (the sophisticated ones) and 20 years ago I might have dated you if you had dropped the angry-thing. I don't know a lot of women who are attracted to that and if you stick with it you might have a very narrow group of women who you might attract.