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    Default To Marry?...or not to be Merry?.... That is the Question

    I am willing to be Merry; just not willing to Marry, so that I stay Merry, from not agreeing to Marry.

    My ex-husband is getting re-married and he's asked me to stand up for him as his best-"wo"man. Unbelievable.

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    Haven't been married, so I'm still under the illusion that one does not exclude the other. Or that things will surely be different for me as merry is as merry does.

    Well, good luck to your ex-husband as he is moving on. If you decide to do it, have fun as the best-"wo"man. And may you always be merry, whether you marry again or not!

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    how does that make you feel

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    Are you platonic best friends?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snuggletron View Post
    how does that make you feel
    Awkward! Yet Honoured. It's weird.
    The new little woman is really quite nice though; its really hard to not like her.
    She'll make a wonderful wife for him and she'll be a good mother-figure for my children.
    She can have him!!!

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    Thanks for that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Metaphor View Post
    Are you platonic best friends?
    Nope, just friendly.
    That is enough for me as far as he is concerned.
    Movin' on and Movin' up.
    I'll do this for him though, he doesn't have many friends over here and he has done a lot to help me in the past.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    Haven't been married, so I'm still under the illusion that one does not exclude the other. Or that things will surely be different for me as merry is as merry does.

    Well, good luck to your ex-husband as he is moving on. If you decide to do it, have fun as the best-"wo"man. And may you always be merry, whether you marry again or not!
    I'd like to think I'll marry again. I know for sure I'll be merry again.....Cheers 2u2 & Thanks!

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    well i think that's totally weird but very sweet. i had hoped my ex and i would remain friends...seems so much nicer that way.
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aprilfool View Post
    I am willing to be Merry; just not willing to Marry, so that I stay Merry, from not agreeing to Marry.

    My ex-husband is getting re-married and he's asked me to stand up for him as his best-"wo"man. Unbelievable.
    Sick attempt to make you feel jealous or sincere offer of friendship?

    *EDIT after reading entire thread.*

    Never mind, you seem a whole lot better with exes than I am, and for me they're all ex-girlfriends, not ex-wives.
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