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    Default Makin friends with a J while being a Pness

    Why does every long and good friendship with a J has to end, the moment they ask the p for an opinion and expect the p in the line of friends to say what he said before the new data was gathered ?
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    Well if the individual can't appreciate what each 'friend' brings to the table regardless of j/p preference .. more fool them.
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    I don't think I understand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Noon View Post
    I don't think I understand.
    Hope you never do
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    huh?

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    Pity that the close, long-term friend is inflexible like that, thats sad.
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    Well my girlfriend and me had this evening with my work colleagues and I planned to be completly normal and not to blow up anything. Disregardless we ended up in a conversation that was really down to the core and like my girlfriend saied: showed the others where their flaws are. I do not understand why people have so huge problems with their flaws and I am not aiming on showing those to them but at some point they waited for my decision on a topic. Since they wanted an honest and clear decision, I gave em honestly an unclear decision because I was not decided. This they took on as cheating because it was about a guy, who is kinda unsympathetic and I always get angry aswell after talking to him, but in the moment we talked about him, I didnt felt like I need to punish him for something now. I personally always hope that people will be happy someday, disregardless of how much they suck. Why should I hope any differently, this wont be constructive.

    Well they ended up not talking to me and my girlfriend no more, but hey we at least tried to be social. Only upside is I am drunk and my girlfriend already passed out next to me, next time we'll go to the cinema that will be more useful
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    I find that P's bring out the pness the J's have been shamefully hiding.

    Once we're comfortable with our new found pness, we start strutting it around whorishly afterwards.

    Unfortunately, we must make like a turtle and hide it when shit hits the fan.
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    Maybe that's the thing I have to learn
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