Actually, Sherlock, your moon/sun combination is pretty conflicted as well - which is actually what I was trying to find in the first place.
Aries is fire cardinal and Cancer is water cardinal. Two directly and strongly opposing elements. One is impulsive and aggressive, the other is sensitive and motherly. Do you feel like you experience two very distinct voices in your head competing for your will? Do you find it difficult to live with both of them and have to somehow suppress one or the other?
As an Capricorn/Aries, my Aries is the devil. It is sexual, aggressive, impulsive, violent, and insensitive. Capricorn on the other hand is calm, collected, methodical, and practical. I've found the only way I can find peace for myself is to kill the Aries. And the only way a feminine force like Capricorn can kill the Aries is to trick it and outlast it. Because the Aries moon sits on the ego or desire, the approach I take is by building up the hopes for the Aries moon, get it all excited and hyped up and let it work towards some goal, and then snatch it away at the last minute.
Never let the ego be satisfied. Let it work. Let it drill itself to exhaustion. Let it kill itself to get what it wants. But never let it get what it wants. Ever. Lather, Rinse, Repeat - until it dies.
I'm almost done. I'm so fucking close...