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    Senior Member copperfish17's Avatar
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    Default Who comes first: family, friends, or SO?

    And why?

    Someone asked me this question recently and I've been thinking about it ever since.
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    SO, mom, rest of family= friends.

    Why? Simple, those two people are the ones that matter the most to me. My mom and my SO have *always* been there for me, no matter how stupid I was or how run down. They can ask me *anything*. I cannot say the same for the others, so there as well I will mirror what is given in each relationship.
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    SO and Parents (and sis whenever I can get ahold of her) and then friends and the rest of family

    like Satine said... those who are always there for me first...
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    Well, this is easy: Parents (don't really know much family outside of them though).

    I might have a couple of close type of friends, but not that close.

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    family = friends = SO.

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    SO, close friends (2 of them), some family = other friends, rest of family.

    My family has never been close. My "chosen family" comes first.
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    Close family, friends, other family members. I don't have an SO, so I'll have to see where I'll place them (probably together with close family).
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    SO first, then family. My SO treats me like his queen, so I do my best to return the favor. Just kidding, I love putting him first. Alongside myself.

    Friends? What friends?

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    The Cat(s).. My SO if it lasts, becomes my life partner. Friends ,If I had any.

    My Family and I are practically strangers.

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