But you raise a good point. Would having an audience create enough energy to create better decisiveness to be more competitive as a non competitive P in the motivations in doing things?I'm kind of kidding.. But there's a general point here. Maybe P needs some external goal, opportunity, or ideal (or audience even) that focuses introverted judgement. While Judgers are able to set goals and visualize internally more. And maybe they can enact what they want in a decisive manner right where they stand (like your bowling friends).. While you're left performing according to your Ji comfort levels because you haven't surrounded yourself with enough hot chicks.
Just a thought
In some ways I saw this with my SP friends at bowling bytheway. We were all kind of performing rather poorly and cared more about the fun of being in the moment rather than the tally while the SJs were totally focused on the tally more and disappointed when we backed off.