My Mother seems to be ESFJ.
She's massive Fe overload. Always doing things to please others, putting them ahead of her needs even if it makes her miserable, she just wants them to be included/happy. Even sometimes refusing to see how much she is enabling them by fostering this approach imho.
But she's an amazing person and I'm glad to have her as my mother. She has taught me something as well even if it didn't come easy. I think we both taught each other something and because of that we have a very solid relationship of understanding now. Sometimes there's moments where she really gets at me LOL! and I to her but in the end we always work it out. Before it wasn't this way as we were not so good with communication. We'd more get each other upset and not understand what was happening or why.