Ye can't. My inherent ability to adapt, to flow around and through obstacles is not able to apply when I cannot trust what someone says. It automatically brings a permanent uncertainty, and is one of the only things that will make me expel someone from my life.
I am so tired by it - that people think it's necessary or okay, that they keep doing it when I say directly to them: "I know that you're lying and that is the only reason I am angry at you. Stop."
I don't hate anything. It can irk me, but I won't "hate" it. I can have feelings of hate go through me for a single moment, but it will just quickly pass. I'm not one for holding grudges... not much point for me. Instead, I rather try to fix the things that will spark any resentment in me; and if all else fails then I will just go into "ignore" mode until I can deal with it again.
"We trust the local doctor, we trust the medicine.
Our child gets a scratch, we get our child a brand new head.
We eat what's on our plate, we drink what's in our cup...
We like the shiny TV screen, it spits, we lap it up...
They sing a song, we hum along.
We sing; but we don't understand the words to the song."
-- High As A Horse