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    Default *Updated, good news!* I figured I'd tell you guys this...

    Since I've been here for so long, I figured I'd let you guys in on what's going on with my life right now.

    About an hour ago I just found out that my dad may have cancer, one of the most aggressive kinds. That's what they told us after they tested him. There is a small chance it's not cancer, I don't know the details of it all. But I do know it's bad.

    My dad was the parent that I "favored," since a lot of people are greatly influenced by one parent and not the other. Yeah. He was that one. He kept me sane throughout a lot of stress at home when I lived with parents. My dad has always been special to me.

    I hope things turn out alright though. I hope that that small percent that it isn't cancer will come through, or that they will be able to somehow treat it. But things are looking bad.

    My dad is 59 years old, an INTP, and a married man. I'm just praying that things turn out well.

    But I don't really know what to think about this. If he goes, then I won't have very much around here. My step mom is here, and my aunt, but family wise that's about it. My family lives in Georgia, including my mom.

    I'll just have to stay strong.
    Last edited by BlackCat; 06-28-2010 at 03:49 PM.
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    Sorry, bud.... :/

    I wish the best for your family.

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    We're all here for you. Remember that.
    I know you don't know me but
    I can tell you really love your dad, and I bet he can too.
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    Sorry to hear that. Good thoughts going out to you and your family.

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    I'm sorry to hear that... I'll cross my fingers for you!
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    You and your Dad are in my prayers BlackCat.

    I have a friend who is dying of an aggressive cancer and that is hard on me as it is. I asked around and the advice I got was mostly to be there (to listen), prepare for change and educate yourself.
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    Sucks man. Disease or illness like cancer is can never be justified. Here's hoping they can treat it with success.
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    Sorry BC. I'll hope for the best for you.



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    If you ever need to vent, the i-net door is always open for you.
    Just breathe. Try not to over-analyze the situation or overly stress. You have a forum with people who care about you at your disposal to help you to be strong in all cases.
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    Bro, your love and concern for your Father are surely known to him, and a great source of comfort to him in his time of need.

    Do what you need to in order to help him out, especially if the worst comes to fruition (God help us that it won't!) as you have one chance to do it right.

    Dad's are not the best at letting others help them, but once we get it through our head that we could use the help, we are damn appreciative of those who step up to the plate and do so.

    Keep your spirits positive, it will help you and him. No matter what know that your Dad is a success in life because you are here to represent him. You are his life's work, Bro. Being your best is the highest honor you can pay him, now or anytime in the future.

    Take care, God bless you and your Dad and your family. You're all officially now on my prayer list.

    Keep the faith, and good luck!



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