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    Senior Member Jaguar's Avatar
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    Default Friendship - You Never Forget Your First. Or Do You?

    Okay people, here's the deal:

    1. Who was the first forum member to send you a friend request?
    2. Who was the first forum member you sent a friend request?
    3. Have you ever booted someone off your friend list?
    4. Have you ever denied a friend request?


    * You can answer the last two with a simple Yes or No, and/or list their name(s) if you wish to be particularly revealing.


    My answers:

    First in- Bananatrombones
    First sent- JockTheMotie

    Yes, I've booted.
    Yes, I've denied.

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    first request- wildcat

    first I requested- not sure, probably kelric, allaboutsoul or lux

    have I booted? indeed I have

    have I denied- a few times... most memorably JF

    edit: I almost never even remember that there's a friend request function, and therefore the number of people I've sent requests to is in the single digits
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    Oh, the drama.

    My favorite is when you remove someone from your list because you never exchange words and you don't even know if you like the person (if you have to think about it, you probably don't), and they notice immediately and ask you why you did it.


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    i think my first friend was miltrell? yeah...pretty sure it was.
    can't remember the first one i requested.
    and yes i've taken some off.
    and...i don't think i've denied anyone.

    haha why do i even bother! my memory is shit. :/
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    1. Who was the first forum member to send you a friend request?

    I am pretty sure it was Sky is Blue!!

    2. Who was the first forum member you sent a friend request?

    Again .. I am not sure.. most people on my list added me. I think it was Forever Jung or Whatever, could be Lux I am thinking

    3. Have you ever booted someone off your friend list?

    Not on this forum

    4. Have you ever denied a friend request?

    Not on this forum


    EDIT.. Don't feel so bad Lady.. I have only been here 6 or so months. I can't be sure either

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    First Person to send me a request was Sky Is BLUE!

    First Person I sent a request to was JAVO, but you, Jag were second.

    I have never booted someone off my friend list... If I accept it or send it then we are friends.

    I have yet to deny a request, but that should not lesson my friendships, because I would deny one if I didn't get a good feeling from the sender. *high fives Ni*
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    It's been three years, I don't remember the answers to the first two questions. But the pool is at least fairly limited. My guess is that was probably another moderator, since we were testing the site the first few weeks to make sure everything worked correctly.

    As far as the last two, I have booted maybe five people from my list over that time, and denied two Friend requests. At least two of the people I booted, I think I reinvited later.
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    1. I don't remember, but my best guess is Substitute.
    2. I don't think I've ever initiated one.
    3. No
    4. Yes, mostly if I don't know who they are or we've never interacted.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EffEmDoubleyou View Post
    1. I don't remember, but my best guess is Substitute.
    2. I don't think I've ever initiated one.
    3. No
    4. Yes, mostly if I don't know who they are or we've never interacted.
    Friend request sent...






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    I don't remember who sent my first one. I've sent several, mostly to people whom I was surprised we weren't already "friends."

    I think I've booted a few, but only because they turned out to be trolls. The friends list is really not that serious to me. It's a nice gesture, but it's not like, "Must re-evaluate friendship periodically. Don't talk to this person often. Boot." I don't expect that the friendship list makes me accountable in any way.
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