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    Iron Maiden fidelia's Avatar
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    First friend request sent to me: Sarcasticus

    First friend request I sent: Can't remember...usually I tend to be a responder more than an initiator, but I've been making a conscious effort not to just be receptive anymore. Like Tallulah, I've sometimes been surprised that people were not already friends.

    Ever booted anyone off: Only one

    Ever denied a request: Don't think so

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    It's been three years, I don't remember the answers to the first two questions. But the pool is at least fairly limited. My guess is that was probably another moderator, since we were testing the site the first few weeks to make sure everything worked correctly.

    As far as the last two, I have booted maybe five people from my list over that time, and denied two Friend requests. At least two of the people I booted, I think I reinvited later.
    I thought the upgrade to the new vBulletin wasn't for a year or so.

    Surely we haven't had the friend function for three years.

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    it was adopted around spring of '08... I'd taken to lurking on the site for a while about the time when it was initiated
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaguar View Post
    Who was the first forum member to send you a friend request?
    Wyst.

    Who was the first forum member you sent a friend request?
    I hate to admit it but I honestly don't remember. Sorry. This is the first forum ever that I've participated in for such a long period of time. When I joined up I honestly didn't think about the possibility of making friends or anything, so it really was a surprise to me when people started befriending me.

    I've always hated sending out friend requests because I was always quite anxious whether I would be accepted or not. I've been ignored by several people as well and yeah, that made me feel utterly worthless and it took quite a long time after that to start feeling good again.

    But it started to feel really good to make people feel welcomed by befriending them. And it got a bit crazy after a while. I admit, I haven't really been the greatest friend but I never befriended anybody just to get the number of friends higher either. People were just amazing.

    Have you ever booted someone off your friend list?
    Yes, all of them. Sorry about that. Creating in/out groups started to feel worse and worse a while ago so, yeah...now everybody is my friend!

    Have you ever denied a friend request?
    No. I still try not to bluntly reject people. I always try to explain why I'm not listing people openly anymore and I can only hope that people understand and don't take it personally.

    Although, I wish there was an option of turning off the possibility of befriending people. That way nobody would really feel bad about it and people who want to add friends can still do it but there would be a clear indication of who does and who doesn't want it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    it was adopted around spring of '08... I'd taken to lurking on the site for a while about the time when it was initiated
    You, lurking? Why does the mere thought of that make me laugh?

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    I've lurked before... ... as long as I'm posting somewhere else!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaguar View Post
    [*]Who was the first forum member to send you a friend request?
    LadyJaye <3

    [*]Who was the first forum member you sent a friend request?
    I believe it was Domino , oh those sisters hahahahaha

    [*]Have you ever booted someone off your friend list?
    Nah. I highly doubt that anyone would piss me off enough to let that happen

    [*]Have you ever denied a friend request?
    Nope

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    Sheesh, can't remember back that far! At a guess SH may have been either the first request or first requested. I know Subby and Falc were quick to embrace the system but I'm not sure that either were in with a first request.

    But no I haven't booted anyone, I don't rate the function enough for that, I have been booted by several other people though, always something I find amusing as it's typically people who sent the request in the first place.

    The only request I remember denying was from a super friendly spammer. People gain no extra personal information by friending me, like facebook, so I see no reason to filter. Plus, I like 99.9% of people, which helps.

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    1. I couldn't tell you to save my life
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    2.) Halla47!

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    Hmm... But what if it does end well?
    Then I suppose it will be a different sort of poetry, a preferable sort...
    A sort I could become accustomed to...



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