Interestingly enough, type I have a special place for is none other than that of yours truly. If you look at my results from the "Jung Explorer Test," you can see that not only am I an INTP, my ideal type is INTP, and the type I am most attracted to is INTP.
Aside from that, I would have to say xNxJs (especially females), with the sole exception of ENFJ. Not that I really have anything against ENFJs, but rather, my mother is an ENFJ, and I am certainly no Oedipus.
I can see how that might bother you. My father is an INFJ and my sister gets the creeps sometimes when she's dating an INFJ man. The parental stamp is a strong one to get around, even when you feel mentally healthy.
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I find myself intellectually drawn to and intrigued/fascinated by xxTP's. But I only know a few INTP's in real life; I'm sure I'm acquainted with people of the other types, but I don't know any for certain.
But as for a special place in my heart, I'm currently very fond of an INFP.
"...On and on and on and on he strode, far out over the sands, singing wildly to the sea, crying to greet the advent of the life that had cried to him." - James Joyce
IRL, I don't consciously type the ones I date, I do try sneak a look at their handwriting though
Online here, I realise (as an ENTP)
INFP - a subversiveness and vulnerability that's strangely adorable.
INTP - depth - best in private though.
ENTP - conversational chemistry, woohoo!
ENFJ - heck, I'd rip those buttons off too.
ESTP - it's like a dare and a lot of fun
INTJs - I'm a little wary somehow, but I like the deadpan, succintness. . .
ISTJs - ground me, as INTJmom said, though I do get bugged with the precision-ness and rules. *chuckles*
I think there're different levels of sparks and chemistry with all types, but all are attractive in their own way. In choosing a partner, it is more than type anyhow. =)
Actually, I'm growing increasingly fond of INTJ's. Really can't put a finger on why, but several of them here seem to be 'drawing me in', and I've been getting on a lot better with the one I know in RL lately, too.
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I will kill you if I must
I will help you if I can" - Leonard Cohen
INTJs. I've never met one I haven't liked, and I've known several. They like to think and deconstruct as much as I do. They see things as deeply and in as much detail as I do. Also, in my experience, they take themselves a wee bit less seriously.
Also, INFPs. I've only met a couple, but they're made of awesome and complementariness. (Is that a word? It is now.)
ENFs. Both types. ENFJs make you feel like you're being included in something special, and ENFPs make you feel like you're escaping from everything that isn't special. They're very different, but both types that I really click with.
ENTPs are a lot of fun but I've never been in an ENTP's inner circle. Do ENTPs have an enduring inner circle? I assume they think they do.