Men offer complicated solutions to problems, when we (women) just want men to listen and sympathize.
Woman: "I was at work today and..." blah, blah, blah, blah, blah --bad stuff happening--
What women REALLY want men to say and do instead of offer a bunch of complicated solutions:
Perfect Man: "awww.. babycakes, that sounds terrible, I know it's tough." --lip lock--
...see how simple that was? Now all is well.
Woman: So I had this problem at work today...
Man hears a problem. A problem! Not while I'm around! Time to think of a solution.
Woman: Continues on endlessly blabbering on w/ too many unrelated things
*You could have honestly told me that in two sentences. However, it is pretty obvious what you need to do.*
Man: Why don't you just...
Woman: Complains more
Man mentally /facepalms
Weathergirl: District 38 is sunny. Slight rock showers this morning. Chance of rock showers into the afternoon—20 percent. District 39 is cloudy. Chance of rock showers this afternoon—10 percent.
Edward: Bebop here here! Alright woo hoo!
Weathergirl: Chance of rock showers today upgraded to 90 percent.
...then F must = horny because I'm telling you, this will work (if implemented properly). I give you my INFP word, I wouldn't lie.
Originally Posted by Antisocial one
Well this is more of a F thing actually...... but I really dislike mood swings in people.
I mean I always have to figure out to who I am actually talking to before I get to the point.
...If you say so. After all T = infinite wisdom. My 'NF' gut tells me that if you 'T'hink too much and overanalyze the situation, you're wasting your precious time; simply diffuse it as described^ or seek out another 'T' (just like yourself) for a real boring relationship.