Do you find it easier to find a mind mate online or IRL?
There are so many people on this site that are knowledgeable (which again is debatable), so you'd think finding a mind mate on here would not be so hard .. Yet i find it so.
For me personally, although i struggle to move people from acquaintance to friend (not quite sure why) i just want to meet someone who can challenge/debate my thinking in a constructive manner.
I am lucky to have my best friend (ENTJ) who is a closed minded argumentative bastard who i adore and thoroughly love to debate with, but we seem to stick to politics and international affairs .. I want to broaden this, but it's his core interest at present.
Do others find it hard to connect?
Or do i possibly have a high expectation here?