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    Quote Originally Posted by marmalade.sunrise View Post
    No I don't think Amar is using more Fi. Fi fuels a strong value system, having empathy, and feelings things deeply and it doesn't necessarily imply gentleness, delicacy, or tact. That seriously sounds like Fe...unless Amar's personal Fi value system strongly resembles Fe, which is of course possible.
    Exactly. Gentleness, delicacy or tact have nothing to do with Fi.

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    okay, i give up. Fi FAIL!

    Fe FAIL!

    I am going to go Ne some shit now....

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    Fwiw, Orobas, I do think I use Fi and not Fe. I guess I use Fe to start with..to give me time to scout the person without revealing myself and meanwhile be socially present. I use the Fe-tricks that are in agreeance with my own values, to do this.

    After that, once I get one on one with the person, I do skip past the social niceties and get down to asking questions and mirroring the person in front of me, to sync up. It's the quid pro quo system. You tell me something, I show a glimpse of who I am on the same topic. And so on and so forth. Pacing. I've found that dropping an emo lake on people is just going to make most people go wtf. I used to get that reaction from people a lot when I was younger. They all loved me the first time (it's a fun show), but if I went on for too long, too intensely or did it repeatedly, they'd recoil, not knowing how to handle it. Hence..I learned how to pace. And only share with those that are open to it and able to handle it.
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    Adorable

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    dropping an emo lake on people
    What an excellent description!

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    i could describe myself...but it would likely not be the same as describing my enfp sister or either of the other two enfp girls i know....but i'll try to list what i see as common traits


    we're playful
    jokey
    like to tease people...meaning giving them hell in a jokey way
    protective
    would do anything for a friend
    very compassionate
    not driven by money
    judge people by strength of character and their heart
    endless energy for fun stuff
    lazyish otherwise
    love great conversation
    love to laugh
    sometimes crave the spotlight
    random
    likes to exaggerate for effect
    twisted sense of humor
    can be blunt or crass

    getting long and boring so i'll stop.
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
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    I'll also throw out there that as much as I love ENFPs, they are batshit insane (from my chilled out perspective) when they are stressed out. Both my mother and girlfriend are ENFPs and when they start stressing out about something I just want to grab them and say CALM DOWN.

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    yep you're right
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
    -Jim Morrison

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    I do think its funny in a cute way though when I'm watching from far away.

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    enthusiasm strange loop
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    Reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions, and can never pretend to any other office
    than to serve and obey them. - David Hume

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