Usually, it's related to people and they truly have to go out of their way or be making a concerted effort for a good amount of time to get me to the boiling point.
I'll verbally rip them to shreds if it gets there, which can be especially bad given my ENFJness. If i manage to control it, you can still feel the agitation permeating the air.
Hang on traveling woman - Don't sacrifice your plan
Cause it will come back to you - Before you lose it on the man
Love doesn't seem like something you can't control, unless love turns into infatuation
It is. Think of all those wives that won't leave their beating husband cos they 'love' him. Of course, it's not the only emotion that at that point comes into play. But the fact that he once made them feel so special and he's what they know (which is better than uncertainty) causes them to be loyal and love him beyond all reason.
Despair/melancholy. I can refocus anger; hatred turns into ambivalence; fear can be ignored; lust and infatuation must be fed; so it's rather easy to avoid those, but I have never succeeded in talking myself out of depression. It's gripping, paralysing, and I cannot think my way out of it.