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    Default Ever been unliked for no reason at all?

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    And still wonders were it has gone...

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    There's always a reason.

    Of course, you won't always be able to figure it out. And they won't always know themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Feops View Post
    There's always a reason.

    Of course, you won't always be able to figure it out. And they won't always know themselves.
    Yes. Exactly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Feops View Post
    There's always a reason.

    Of course, you won't always be able to figure it out. And they won't always know themselves.
    This.......

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    Yeah, it has happened. In particular this EXTJ girl.
    I was nothing but friendly neutrality when we started seventh grade.
    Over here, when you start seventh grade when you're thirteen you move up a school and as such becomes a freshman, sort of.
    People get jumbled together with people from other primary schools etc.

    This girl really freaking hated me on first sight. It was creepy, she wouldn't even shake my hand when we were telling the new classmates our names and stuff.
    It's kinda weird, because I was the popular kid and for girls that age incredibly good looking, apparently.
    Too innocent to realize this and take advantage of it, too. Or grow a large head.
    I was nice to everyone all the time, basically.
    I went to school with her for three years and I never got a straight answer from her.
    Once, I got a curious reaction out of her. All seventh graders from my school were on a trip out in the woods in late may.
    It was around ten in the evening and we were all really damn tired.
    I probably looked like a ghost or something. Could have fallen asleep standing.
    She probably saw this and went all gushy and emotional, even saying "awwww" and touching my cheek.
    It was sincere, you can just tell you know.
    Then ten seconds later she was her brutal/mean self again and sort of stalked off boiling.

    To this day, when she sees me she avoids looking at me or even saying hi, if I don't move out of my way to go over and say hi to her. Sometimes she says hi back, sometimes not.
    I mean, there is something strange going on in that head. I never figured out just what.
    If she would've been in love with me, I think I would have known.
    Frankly, I don't know what the hell it all was.

    She actually succeeded in making me a lot less popular, always slandering me for being stupid/ugly and god knows what. :rolli:
    I've never had such strong antipathies before... But well, it wasn't mutual exactly.
    I was never rude to her, I were upset sometimes because of how she went on and confronted her, but I was never unpleasant, rude or mean towards her.
    In fact, I can actually say that I would have liked her, despite her being ugly, if circumstances would've been less hostile.
    Pretty similar taste in music, apparently she reads books, has lots of strong opinions that aren't always that bad, thinks a lot... Etc.
    Exactly the sort of person that I'd respect more than usual.

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    ^^ Um, sounds like she actually liked you...and lacked the skills to show it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    ^^ Um, sounds like she actually liked you.
    I know, I thought it was that back then, too.
    I even said I really liked her as a person and stuff, too.
    And, well, she would have known just after a month or so that I am not a shallow person, as well.
    Still no change. Just that little flicker of raw feeling that once.

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    Quote Originally Posted by YourLocalJesus View Post
    I know, I thought it was that back then, too.
    I even said I really liked her as a person and stuff, too.
    And, well, she would have known just after a month or so that I am not a shallow person, as well.
    Still no change. Just that little flicker of raw feeling that once.
    Probably some self esteem issues or something deeper that that. But, you see, there's always a reason for such a behaviour. It's either stemming from you or from them. In this case it's the latter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    Probably some self esteem issues or something deeper that that. But, you see, there's always a reason for such a behaviour. It's either stemming from you or from them. In this case it's the latter.
    I always figured that it wasn't because of me, per se, just pretty unlucky.
    I can tell you I was pretty damn surprised over someone hating me badly without reason at all.
    I was like "What the fuck is this? Am I dreaming? " most of the time.
    Sort of strange, people usually like me. Whether it is after they have gotten to know me and that I won't screw them over and in fact help if I can, or instantly.

    Gah. Never made any sense.

    What's your story?

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    [edit] Deleting my previous post. It was a jumbled, unpunctuated mess. Someone would probably not like me for it


    Anyways, I don't think I've been unliked for no reason. I've been unliked for imaginary or at least, shallow reasons though.

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