And... "Don't visit my intentions"? When you post on a public forum, you're opening yourself up to that. As far as I know, you don't have any sort of fundamental right to not have your intentions questioned. Sorry if that bothers you.
My personal motto (and others may disagree) is, "If you can't stand the heat, get out of the oven." Also see, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do."
I don't dislike you (in fact I think you say insightful things at times, for instance when you brought up a topic about European-American cultural differences about traveling), but I do disagree with your disdain for the anonymous reputations in this case.