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    I really only notice it when someone Reps me and i want to respond to the Rep. It's like walking into a brick wall .

    Some people are just more private or prefer less light conversation than others. I'm very public so there isn't much i wouldn't discuss through walls, unless it is excessive or decently personal. Text-walls are for pms
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    Quote Originally Posted by teslashock View Post
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    I don't want it to seem like I don't like talking to people or that I don't value when others reach out to me. Its very ease of use is what cheapens the substance of the messages. I see a correlation between easy communication and meaningless communication.

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    Quote Originally Posted by disregard View Post
    I don't want it to seem like I don't like talking to people or that I don't value when others reach out to me. Its very ease of use is what cheapens the substance of the messages. I see a correlation between easy communication and meaningless communication.
    Ah... now there is a good point.

    (Yeah, almost like the plethora of crap happening on a FB status line.)
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    Considering how rarely I post on walls it is interesting that reading this discussion made me see that I wouldn't give up the possibility of posting on a wall. Yeah, there are certain situations when it would be too awkward to PM and too one-sided to rep. And sometimes you want to expand a forum discussion with someone and feel that it is too out of topic to do so in the forum.

    EDIT. Btw, I think the wall might have a social purpose also, it promotes integrity. If you get a lot of hate-mail on the wall, people who don't know you will immediately get the idea. Or is there a way to remove the unwanted messages? (I have no idea how these things work... )

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    This puzzles me so much. This is the only place I've ever been where people are so shy about and put so much significance on PMs. If anybody wants to PM me with one sentence or even one word, I hope they will...and I will not read it as a marriage proposal... I have never been on a forum that had walls before and I don't really understand how they work. Somebody mentioned to me that I'd posted on my own wall. I was like, ok, I'm shutting this crap off. Besides the fact that I don't like everyone able to view my conversations. But not to inhibit conversation at all. Although I guess it has that effect, unfortunately.

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    Quote Originally Posted by disregard View Post
    I don't want it to seem like I don't like talking to people or that I don't value when others reach out to me. Its very ease of use is what cheapens the substance of the messages. I see a correlation between easy communication and meaningless communication.
    I agree with that entirely. I remember writing excellent snail mail letters, which I don't be email, and while I have facebook, I refuse to use it for much more than a convenient way to contact certain people. I don't like it becoming a substitute for us having a real relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiltyred View Post
    This puzzles me so much. This is the only place I've ever been where people are so shy about and put so much significance on PMs. If anybody wants to PM me with one sentence or even one word, I hope they will...and I will not read it as a marriage proposal... I have never been on a forum that had walls before and I don't really understand how they work. Somebody mentioned to me that I'd posted on my own wall. I was like, ok, I'm shutting this crap off. Besides the fact that I don't like everyone able to view my conversations. But not to inhibit conversation at all. Although I guess it has that effect, unfortunately.
    Unlike facebook, you actually have to go to the other person's wall to post, or else you just wrote a message on your own wall that they can't see unless they go back to your profile page. I post on my own wall constantly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fidelia View Post
    I've noticed some people who used to have wall messages have changed it so that they can only be contacted through PM. I've always wondered why. Is it that they are worried about what might appear on their wall?
    Stalking + Graffiti. I have mine 'Friends only' now.
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    My wall is "friends only" because some people think they can say whatever they want on my wall. If they keep it up, they get un-friended.

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