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    Question People who have fought for you

    Who in your life has been there for you, and fought for you? A mentor? A protector? Who put themselves on the line and risked something for you? Someone who pushed you to be something greater, or knew that all you needed was an opportunity?
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    Hmm. I'm trying not to sound too negative but I can't recall anybody who has really put everything on the line for me. It hasn't happened to me yet and I haven't had the chance to do anything like that for anyone else either. But I have high hopes for the future.

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    My dad. Otherwise, can't say I''ve met one. I've met people who've tried to push me, not exactly "fight".. but I haven't gotten much from those type of people.. When push came to shove, I think they had little interest in relating personally. Their pushing was a "general" thing they did with anyone, which is cool and all.. but not my thing. Or... they were employers and in actuality, just looking for more and more production.

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    Well, I guess my mother, when she was pregnant with me and then gave birth to me. Pretty grateful for that. And I know the process was pretty traumatic for her.
    Also my dad. When he stood by me when I was suffering through a very dark period of my life.

    Other people, no. But then again, neither have I. Except for one time - for me kid sister.

    EDIT: Shit, I almost forgot one person who's been there for me through my darkest times. And even though I put him through hell and humiliation, he still believed in me and stuck by me. My ex bf! Still have no idea why he stayed with me when I didn't even want to stay with myself, but he did and he helped me see the light.

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    curious why he's your ex. he sounds great

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    Quote Originally Posted by KDude View Post
    curious why he's your ex. he sounds great
    He is a great guy, and we're good friends, but I fell out of love. The attraction was gone and we stopped having sex for about a year before I ended it, after 5 years together. I thought I was afraid of keep taking birth control and getting breast cancer, but I realize now that I was already gone.

    EDIT: I think it would have taken me even longer to realize I wasn't in love anymore, if I hadn't fallen in love with someone else. The reason I ended it was because I felt so attracted to the guy I'm with now, I thought; I can't be in love with "the ex", if I feel this strongly about current bf.

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    Didnt happen so far.

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    None that I can think of.

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    My parents, my older brother and one of my friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Biaxident View Post
    None that I can think of.
    Ditto.


    Not that I would want anyone.

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