Seriously, if yeu DON'T have someone special, it'll just make yeu feel down, worse if they're dead or away or whotever.
If yeu DO have someone, yeu're basically saying yeu only have to show yeu care one day of the year... if yeu do something nice frequently then yeu're expected to do something really extravagant yeu probably can't afford...
I dunno, the whole holiday just seems like suck to me. I shouldn't need an excuse to show someone I care. I don't like to flaunt relationships either; they're private, so I see no reason to show such in public either. And for the years I've not had anyone it's just a stronger emphasis on loneliness.
So WTH do we even still have this horrible excuse for a holiday since it really benefits noone, other than the shallow wanna-be romantics?