I've never had someone close to me die so I am unsure about the best way to deal with death. I am looking for ideas or thoughts on how to take death.
I think the closest I've ever been was when my 4 month old had very serious surgery and I was a basket case. I could even start to cry if I saw the name of the surgeon for months afterwards.
I would like to avoid that type of thing but I'm not sure if there is a way to do it. Any thoughts or suggestions are welcome.
Maybe the best way you got to a stable point after a very close-to-you-death?
How do you deal with stupid things people say?
How do you avoid crying like crazy at the funeral? Is this even a goal?