I'm good with my femininity, but the cat dream is associated with jealousy. When I was little, our family had a cat that preferred my mother to me, and I was jealous. I really wanted that cat to like me best. I started having the cat dream when I was in high school and the boy I was dating was showing interest in other people.
I don't know what the man who wants to kill me is about. It ends just when my strength is giving out, like, once I was trying to crank a window shut that as he was trying to get into it; I was pushing on a revolving door that he was pushing; he was chasing me and I couldn't run anymore -- just when I am about to be killed, I wake up.