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    Quote Originally Posted by teslashock View Post
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    Were you spanked? Or beaten? Or convinced that you were a no-good little brat?
    Every child is convinced that they're a no good little brat. This is the way it is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haphazard View Post
    Every child whose parents don't know jackshit about effective discipline is convinced that they're a no good little brat. This is the way it is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by teslashock View Post
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    No. The best way to care for children is guilting them into submission.
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    Quote Originally Posted by teslashock View Post
    ExTJs (particularly ESTJs)

    Why don't we do a (rather inconclusive) study:

    Were you spanked as child?
    Which parent did the spanking?
    What was said parent's type?
    Father ESTJ - beating children is a hobby for him.
    Mother ISxJ - occasionally spanked, but it was rare and not severe

    As a side note:
    My sis is an ESFJ and spanked her childen occassionally her husband is an ISTP and also spanked on a rare occassion.

    I would NEVER put my hands on a child. I think it breaks their spirit rather than teaches them anything meaningful and constructive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ragingkatsuki View Post
    I was using statistics whereas a large number of 'spank victims' end up fine with their parents.
    Which statistics?

    The American Psychological Association doesn't seem to share your view:

    Corporal Punishment

    Perhaps you can explain how assaulting a child is okay but doing the same to an adult is not?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoSunshine View Post
    Father ESTJ - beating children is a hobby for him.
    Mother ISxJ - occasionally spanked, but it was rare and not severe

    As a side note:
    My sis is an ESFJ and spanked her childen occassionally her husband is an ISTP and also spanked on a rare occassion.

    I would NEVER put my hands on a child. I think it breaks their spirit rather than teaches them anything meaningful and constructive.
    Initial conclusion: It's potentially an SJ thing (no surprise there). SJs are all about tradition, spanking is a very "traditional" method of discipline.

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    Quote Originally Posted by teslashock View Post
    Initial conclusion: It's potentially an SJ lazy parenting thing...
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    Quote Originally Posted by teslashock View Post
    ExTJs (particularly ESTJs)

    Why don't we do a (rather inconclusive) study:

    Were you spanked as child?
    Which parent did the spanking?
    What was said parent's type?
    Yes.
    Both equally.
    Dad - ISTP
    Mom - ESTP
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    Quote Originally Posted by bananatrombones View Post
    Fixed.
    Maybe it's the "lazy" (ie, uncreative) solution, but that doesn't mean it's ineffective...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Haphazard View Post
    No. The best way to care for children is guilting them into submission.
    Note to self: Do not let Haphazard babysit my children.

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