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    Default Saying "I love you"

    I pride myself in being honest everytime I said it. And that's easy to say, because I never said it.

    Now I am in love for nearly five years and I am in love, ouh yeah I just had the most beautiful three weeks of my life ( and that after five years ).

    But I still dont say it. And nowadays its more like, I am forgetting to say it. Not that I would ever bother, cause I know what I want, but she of course does bother. And I am pretty fucked now cause she caught me two times in five years not saying I love you ever and now I am too pride to even say it at all. Cause it would look like she trained me to say it and she wouldnt like that also.

    So I know need to wait for the perfect moment and then shoot, but when that moment comes, I dont have to forget that I need to say it !!

    Do you understand my dilemma ?

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    I understand.

    But why would you want to make yourself say it? Can you not tell her you love her with other words? If you love her, you should be able to express yourself emotionally. Why does it have to be with 'I love you'?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    I understand.

    But why would you want to make yourself say it? Can you not tell her you love her with other words? If you love her, you should be able to express yourself emotionally. Why does it have to be with 'I love you'?
    Yeah, good advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miserable View Post
    Yeah, good advice.
    Thank you

    How do you express your love?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    I understand.

    But why would you want to make yourself say it? Can you not tell her you love her with other words? If you love her, you should be able to express yourself emotionally. Why does it have to be with 'I love you'?
    I agree with not forcing yourself.

    But I can also see how frustrating it is when that's all you want to hear, and you're getting everything else under the sun from your SO.

    Which totally doesn't help entropie much at all. ^^;
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    I understand.

    But why would you want to make yourself say it? Can you not tell her you love her with other words? If you love her, you should be able to express yourself emotionally. Why does it have to be with 'I love you'?
    I do with many other words and she knows, otherwise we wouldnt be together.

    But she wants it all and I cant blame her for that wish
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    And my problem was always holding off from saying it. You'd think my tongue would require alcohol to start slipping.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    How do you express your love?
    Well, if I wanted to share that, I would say it myself, or I would already have said it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bubbles View Post
    I agree with not forcing yourself.

    But I can also see how frustrating it is when that's all you want to hear, and you're getting everything else under the sun from your SO.

    Which totally doesn't help entropie much at all. ^^;
    While it may be frustrating, forcing it is never a good option. I have learned that with my INFJ mother. She wants me to say things because I want to say them, not because of her.

    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    I do with many other words and she knows, otherwise we wouldnt be together.

    But she wants it all and I cant blame her for that wish
    Of course you can't blame her, most girls (most) wish for that.

    But how do you feel about saying I love you? Is it just your pride? If there is not as much meaning behind you saying 'I love you', at least not on the same level as for other people, then why say something with less meaning?

    Of course, I could have just totally misinterpreted that, so you can just go ahead and correct me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miserable View Post
    Well, if I wanted to share that, I would say it myself, or I would already have said it.
    Okay, that is cool.
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