the thing that beats you senseless in the inside when your about to do something it believes is not right.
Oh, my, yes!!!
It's also the think that give you the uncomfortable feeling that everything that has gone wrong is somehow your own fault - absolutely no matter how ridiculous that could possibly be. Not the out and out martyr stuff - the niggling away on the inside variety. ---This is to some degree a matter of immaturity and not nearly so prevalent with healthy development.