In terms of a relationship, I'd probably find an ISFP to be too introverted, feeling, and perceiving. Yeah, I need to find someone exactly like me...
Or, in more serious terms, I mean just whatever those aspects would translate to. For instance, there's this introvert I'm attracted to, but I think she's really shy and it's really difficult to talk to her because she mostly prefers the company of her closest friend.
ESTJ- I just think our values naturally collide and are at odds with each other and communication is hardest for me with that type so far that I have seen.
I want to move to the beat of my own drum and hate status quo and pack mentalities and telling people what to do and being told what to do. I feel like ESTJ's want me to worship them and look up to them and I just don't,lol.
I think I make them feel rejected too because I want no part of the status quo and what is typically deemed as success and I think it makes them feel rejected when I have to be different- I think the status quo thing is a way of achieving peace in their mind and equality and so when I want to do my own thing- it makes them feel like they are not good enough but really I have to express myself or I will die and I hate being a cookie cutter- not that cookie cutters are bad just not for me. I think they feel rejected and insulted by me and like I make hassles for them and disrupt the peace.
I feel like more then any other type ESTJ's try to tell me who I should be and that who I am & my values are wrong. I think other types may think the same way- but ESTJ's will verbalize it and cut me down and will not leave it alone.
I feel the most invalidated by ESTJ's and ISTJ's.
ISTJ's are pretty close second in problems.
ISTJ's seem to get an idea of who I am and make a snapshot assessment of things and then hold onto to those assessments no matter the new information given to them. They are so stubborn and close minded from what I have experienced. Once they have made an opinion they stick to it no matter what- that makes it too hard to have any kind relationship with them for me. They seem to have a problem seeing layers and many sides to things that are contradictory but equal.
Both types have the hardest time being good listeners as far as when communicating to me and are never wrong and feel like emotional bullies to me. The ego trip of having to be right and being or knowing the best- it is like a self worth identity thing.
I just think that I make their values feel invalidated and they with mine- not that that is the intention- just the way it is- just too naturally conflicting. I have given up on ever having any kind of relationship with those two types, I will allow myself to be proven wrong- I am just not going to hold my breath.