I've had long talks with Amar about an ENFP friend of mine who will sometimes do weird things and when I confront her, she'll say "I'm sorry, but..." and go off into a long explanation which seems like she's not really sorry - merely trying to explain - even if she really is sorry. Whereas when I am faced with the same confrontation, I simply take ownership and just apologize and promise to be more aware. The reasons are not as important to me as the end result. This is just a tangent and not related to you at all, since you have nothing to be sorry about. I'm just illustrating the difference in communication styles.